Cozy Packwood A-frame Cabin Elopement With Friends
The misty tendrils of a northwest winter draped themselves around the cabin like a soft, woolen blanket. The sky was overcast, the air thick with moisture. Would it rain? was a question on all of our minds. But it mattered not, from inside the cozy comfort of their riverside refuge.
The excitement and anticipation of the day had been building for weeks—years—and the morning mood was one of nerves and joy. The couple and their closest friends gathered in the cozy A-frame cabin by the riverside to prepare for the momentous occasion. They laid out their clothes on the bed—it was time to step into the pieces they’d chosen for this exact moment.
The bride, her hair in loose curls, looked stunning in her elegant lace gown. And her groom, dashing in his sharp suit, one of earth tones and emerald plus an ascot to tie it altogether. Their friends, too, all dressed to the nines.
As they stepped outside, the soft raindrops were a soothing symphony on the leaves—a cleansing blessing to surround them as they stepped into the next chapter of their lives as one. The river below roiled and flowed, offering a natural accompaniment to the momentous occasion, and the evergreen curtain of forest around them seemed to wave and whisper words of encouragement as the breeze blowed.
The ceremony, officiated by a dear friend, was short in length but not in gravity. What took a few mere minutes served to symbolize an entire lifetime—two lifetimes.
After the great union, we retreated inside, thankful for the warmth emanating from the fireplace, and the food on their plates. Dusk fell and the earth grew quiet for the night, yet for the rest of the evening the cabin remained a lively sanctuary of revelry and warmth, food and drink, dancing to classics and reminiscing by the fire. Remembering those of past who could not be there, and appreciating thoughts of what all was to come in the years and decades ahead. A moment between past and future: aptly, the present, the pivotal peak of a swing on the pendulum.
Days like this—where every single moment is momentous—are rare, but deserved and warranted for signifying occasions such as this.
You could decide to throw a big wedding with 200 people, blurs of food and seating arrangements and favors and fast-paced parades. You absolutely could. For many folks this is the dream.
For others, this is.
An immense thank you to the team that brought this altogether!
Brianna and Aaron, the couple, for their incredible work on the thoughtful details & planning of this day! From the music selections, to the jewel-tone décor and attire, they knocked it out of the park.
Private dinner provided by the exquisite Kara Hendrie of Miere Catering
Officiating by a friend of the couple
Hair & makeup DIY by the bride and her friend
Decorations & florals provided by the couple & their friends
Venue provided by The Place on the River (please note: Airbnb recently introduced a new policy prohibiting parties at their stays. When looking for a spot to stay for your elopement, please reach out to the host directly and ask about your plans before booking. This couple messaged this host beforehand asking for permission to hold their intimate elopement here.)
Photography & planning by yours truly, Wilderpines Elopements
THINKING OF ELOPING IN WASHINGTON?
Washington state, in my opinion, is hands down one of the best places in the world for an adventure elopement. Whether you want snow-capped mountains, mossy rainforests, gorgeous coastlines, meadows blooming with colorful wildflowers or desert canyons—the Evergreen state has got it all. If you want to elope in Washington, these are a few things to know and take into consideration beforehand, and how to get started planning!
HOW TO START PLANNING YOUR WASHINGTON ELOPEMENT
STEP 1: DO SOME RESEARCH
Hey look at that, you’re already ahead of the game! The first step in planning an elopement is to do research, and that usually starts with locations. And if you know you want to elope in Washington, you’re already ahead of the game!
Once you have a general idea of what you want, you can start to get ideas for all the rest of what your elopement may entail: travel, hiking trails, elopement-day activities, ceremony ideas, and so on. It’s also a great chance to brainstorm and explore!
STEP 2: CONNECT WITH A PLANNER & PHOTOGRAPHER WHO KNOWS THE AREA, AND PICK A DATE
I recommend hiring your photographer early on in the planning process because a great photographer is so much more than a camera person—they’re also a wealth of knowledge!
You want someone who knows the area (psst, that’s us!) and who can help you find the perfect location and give you valuable insight into the area, and help you with all the logistics like travel, timelines, marriage law, and permits, provide recommendations for other vendors and activities—plus tips for what else to do and see on your elopement trip!
A few tips on finding a photographer and picking a date:
I recommend looking for someone local to the area you want to elope, since they’ll know the ins and outs of that specific region.
Look for someone who specializes in adventure elopements (like us). There is so much more logistically involved with an adventure elopement than a big wedding or a photoshoot, and you’ll want someone with the right expertise and knowledge, plus the proper gear and outdoors experience to be as prepared and safe as possible.
Even if you don't have an exact date, having a season or time of year in mind is helpful when you start looking for your photographer—but if you’re still unsure, we’re happy to help steer you in the right direction and find what’s best for you.
PICKING A DATE: Weekends can be overwhelmingly crowded pretty much anywhere you go in the region, especially in the busy season (April through October), so I highly recommend picking a weekday for your elopement. You’ll end up with less crowds and a far more intimate experience.
TIP FROM A PRO: If you have a specific photographer in mind that you’re dreaming of working with, I recommend coming to them with a flexible date range for a better chance of securing a booking with them!
Our packages are pretty darn-near all-inclusive and come with planning services, officiating services, gear and decoration rentals, even videography and custom elopement announcement design. We also offer 35mm and 8mm film!
STEP 3: NARROW DOWN THE DETAILS
After you’ve got a date, a location, and a photographer, you can start to book the rest of your vendors and get into the nitty gritty details. Make sure you’ve got an officiant lined up (psst, we’re ordained and include officiant services with all our packages!), hire your other vendors, research marriage laws and apply for your marriage license, apply for your permit (if applicable), book your travel and accommodations, get together a packing list, and craft your timeline so your elopement day can go off without a hitch.
We can also help you navigate the ins and outs of elopement logistics and provide you with personalized recommendations for vendors and more so you don’t have to feel overwhelmed with all the planning.
A few logistical notes:
FINDING AN OFFICIANT: You will need a licensed officiant for your elopement adventure. Great news: we’re all ordained, and we offer complimentary officiant services with all of our elopement packages!
MARRIAGE LAW: Once you apply for your marriage license (which you can do online), there is a 3 day waiting period before you can go have your ceremony. When it comes time for your ceremony, you will also need two witnesses to sign your marriage license. If you to learn more about finding witnesses and navigating marriage law for your elopement, read our blog post about that here!
PERMITS: Depending on where in Washington you want to elope, you will most likely need a permit. National parks in Washington require permits even for small elopements, as do some of the national forests, depending on the logistics and size of your elopement. Contact the office in charge of your location to find out what if any permits are necessary, and what the steps are to apply for your permit—or, better yet, get in touch and we’ll help you sort out the permit information and all the other logistics, too.
STEP 4: PACK YOUR BAG, GET OUT THERE, AND HAVE THE BEST ELOPEMENT DAY EVER!
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WILDERPINES ELOPEMENTS
Creating wildly intentional & intimate adventure elopements for rad couples in the PNW
We’re here to inspire you and help you create a unique, intentional, unforgettable wedding experience that reflects who you are, then to capture it all so you can relive those moments forever.
If you’re looking for more information on how to elope in the Pacific Northwest or beyond, get in touch and let’s start planning your dream elopement!
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